docs(devtools): align logo, panel, and option union descriptions across docs and JSDoc (#10617)

* docs(devtools): replace framework-specific logo with 'TanStack logo' to match the actual rendered component

* docs(vue-query/devtools): replace 'React Query' panel leftover with 'Vue Query'

* docs(devtools): replace framework-specific logo with 'TanStack logo' and use adapter naming for 'devtools panel' in JSDoc

* docs(devtools): add missing 'relative' to JSDoc 'buttonPosition' union

* chore(.changeset): add changeset for devtools logo, panel, and 'buttonPosition' union alignment

* docs(preact-query-devtools): add missing 'position' union to JSDoc