fix(node): support module-sync export condition (#34599)

Closes denoland/orchid#350
Fixes https://github.com/denoland/deno/issues/29970

## Summary
- add `module-sync` to the default npm package export conditions for
both import and require resolution
- include `module-sync` in CJS analyzer require-style re-export
resolution
- add npm spec coverage for a package whose `module-sync` conditional
export appears before `node` for both import and `createRequire()`

## Testing
- `cargo fmt --check`
- `cargo test -p node_resolver`

## Notes
- Attempted `cargo test specs::npm::module_sync_condition --
--no-capture`, but the filtered spec target was killed during the first
full CLI test binary build before reaching the test phase.

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