fix(ext/node): support vm dynamic import callback (#34572)

Closes denoland/orchid#335

Implements node:vm importModuleDynamically support by carrying a
per-runtime callback key through V8 host-defined options, invoking the
registered JS trampoline from the dynamic import host callback, and
resolving returned vm.Module instances through evaluation/namespace
extraction.

Covered APIs:
- vm.Script and runInThisContext/runInContext/runInNewContext
- vm.compileFunction
- vm.createContext inherited callback
- vm.SourceTextModule

Verification:
- cargo check -p deno_node
- ./target/debug/deno run -A
tests/specs/node/vm_dynamic_import_no_callback/main.mjs
- ./target/debug/deno run -A
tests/specs/node/vm_dynamic_import_callback/main.mjs

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