fix(harness): ensure the bootstrap recipe on resumed sessions (#19100)

Stacked on #19099.

## Background

Resumed sessions skip the bootstrap check. A sandbox snapshot created by
an older adapter version keeps running its old bridge against a newer
host.

## Summary

Run the recipe check on resume too. The marker is keyed by recipe
identity, so an up-to-date resume costs a single file read.

## Checklist

- [x] All commits are signed (PRs with unsigned commits cannot be
merged)
- [x] Tests have been added / updated (for bug fixes / features)
- [ ] Documentation has been added / updated (for bug fixes / features)
- [x] A _patch_ changeset for relevant packages has been added (for bug
fixes / features - run `pnpm changeset` in the project root)
- [x] I have reviewed this pull request (self-review)

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Co-authored-by: Felix Arntz <felix.arntz@vercel.com>