[glance] Don't send redundant visibility actions

Glance will explicitly set visibility on just about every view. This includes setting
VISIBLE on views that are visibile by default. Doing so adds RemoteViews$ReflectionAction
each time we call this, which can add up in complex Remote Views.

This CL removes that default setting for Api 33+. It leaves it for older apis where
visibility might be important due to how we use stubs. It also requires components to
explicitly opt in or out of the optimization. The optimization is disabled in particular
for descendents of list views due to the potential of bugs during recycling.

Bug: b/504577705
Test: Run integration tests, screenshot tests
Change-Id: Ieb83e0a938a1217e824a65eb8093d94abb72ed86