qa/suites/nvmeof/upgrade: use refresh True for wait_for_service

Add refresh: True to upgrade tests, same as we added for
https://tracker.ceph.com/issues/73538

Fixes: https://tracker.ceph.com/issues/78770

Co-authored-by: barakda <barak.davidov@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Vallari Agrawal <vallari.agrawal@ibm.com>