ci: add best-effort BoringSSL job (#2456)

Adds Ubuntu and macOS CI jobs that build BoringSSL from source and exercise cpp-httplib's existing OpenSSL backend path (continue-on-error: best-effort). Makes SSLClientServerTest.TlsVerifyHostname backend-aware (BoringSSL is SAN-only per RFC 6125 §6.4.4). README notes BoringSSL as a best-effort variant with the C++14 and SAN-only caveats.