fix: prevent Postgres 100-argument limit crash and restore data parity for restricted-member project access

The application table has 101 columns. The restricted-member branch of
project.one (apps/dokploy/server/api/routers/project.ts) queried the
applications relation with no columns narrowing, so Drizzle's relational
query builder generated a json_build_array call with one argument per
column, exceeding Postgres's FUNC_MAX_ARGS (100). Any non-owner/admin
member with limited access to a project containing at least one
application hit an opaque INTERNAL_SERVER_ERROR and got redirected away
from the project/environment page instead of seeing their project.

The same branch was also missing the "server" relation that the
owner/admin path (findProjectById) already includes, so restricted
members saw different (incomplete) data than owners/admins for the same
project.

Fixes this by extracting the existing serviceColumns column-selection
constant to a module-level export in packages/server/src/services/project.ts
and applying it (plus the server relation) to all 8 service relations in
the restricted-member query path, matching the owner/admin path.