Switch Mac packaging to use .zip files. (#14894)

We can't use .tar.xz on Mac because although it can unpack them on the command line (with tar), the "Archive Utility" that runs when you double-click on them just does some crazy behavior (it
converts it to a compressed cpio archive, and when you double-click on that, it converts it back to .tar.xz, without ever unpacking it!)

So, this changes the script to use .zip for Mac, and the files are about 220MB larger than they need to be.