Re-reland Xcode backend refactor (#23762)

* Use Xcode build configurations to drive Flutter build mode

* Proper check wrt local_engine, print error if profile mode misisng

* Remove unused code, update tests, fix template problem, update warning

* fix up warning

* add explanatory dev comment

* fix whitespace

* missing words, change lambda arrow to function body

* error indentation

* Test early exits for xcode_backend.sh

* only on macOS, use right test

* Update error messages

* case insensitive compare for build config

* Update gallery podfile

* update projects to add profile configuration

* make compatible with flavors

* add missing plist files

* add FLUTTER_FRAMEWORK_DIR back, set swift version for profile, tell Podfile about profile