fix(redis-state): tolerate legacy idempotency tombstones (#4747)

## Description
Pre-TTL idempotency keys used older value formats,
and some persistent keys are still lingering. Treat
marker-only tombstones as stale entries so scheduling
can proceed, while logging that the key needs cleanup.
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