thunderbolt: Make interrupt optional for rings

For some use-cases it does make sense to poll the rings directly instead
of relying on the interrupt. For this reason add a new flag RING_FLAG_NO_INTERRUPT
that can be used to allocate ring in polled mode.

Assisted-by: Claude:claude-opus-4-8
Signed-off-by: Mika Westerberg <mika.westerberg@linux.intel.com>