common : refactor cli arg parsing (#7675)

* common : gpt_params_parse do not print usage

* common : rework usage print (wip)

* common : valign

* common : rework print_usage

* infill : remove cfg support

* common : reorder args

* server : deduplicate parameters

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* common : add missing header

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* common : remote --random-prompt usages

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* examples : migrate to gpt_params

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* batched-bench : migrate to gpt_params

* retrieval : migrate to gpt_params

* common : change defaults for escape and n_ctx

* common : remove chatml and instruct params

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* common : passkey use gpt_params