AVX BF16 and single scale quant optimizations (#10212)

* use 128 bit loads (i've tried 256->128 to death and its slower)

* double accumulator

* avx bf16 vec dot

* +3% q4_0 inference

* +7% tg +5% pp compared to master

* slower f16c version, kep for reference

* 256b version, also slow. i tried :)

* revert f16

* faster with madd

* split to functions

* Q8_0 and IQ4_NL, 5-7% faster

* fix potential overflow (performance reduced)

* 16 bit add for q4_0 only

* merge