CUDA full GPU acceleration, KV cache in VRAM (#1827)

* Fixed CUDA RoPE

* ggml_cuda_mul_mat_vec_p021

* ggml_cuda_scale

* ggml_cuda_diag_mask_inf

* ggml_is_permuted

* ggml_cuda_cpy

* flatten rows for ggml_cuda_op

* Added a --low-vram option

* Fixed Windows performance

* Fixed LLAMA_CUDA_DMMV_Y > 1 for WizardLM