sycl : Fixes to broken builds and test-backend-ops (#10257)

* Fixes broken build for the SYCL CUDA backend caused by non-explicit gemm call in outprod (merged in with RWKV6 in
Optimize RWKV6 Operator Naming and Implement Multi-core CPU/ SYCL Acceleration #10133)

* Marks permuted MUL_MAT as unsupported to be able to run test-backend-ops

* Fixes asserts in norm to fix debug builds.