sync : ggml (#5452)

* ggml-alloc : v3 (ggml/727)

* ggml-alloc v3

ggml-ci

* fix ci

ggml-ci

* whisper : check for backend buffer allocation failures

* whisper : avoid leaks when initialization fails

* cleanup

ggml-ci

* style fixes

ggml-ci

* sync : ggml

* update llama.cpp, clip.cpp, export-lora.cpp

* update finetune.cpp, train-text-from-scratch.cpp

ggml-ci

* ggml-backend : reduce alignment to 32 to match gguf and fix mmap

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Co-authored-by: slaren <slarengh@gmail.com>