ggml : add `ggml_upscale_ext` (ggml/814)

* initial commit with CPU implementation of upscale to shape and test, cuda implementation next

* experimental commit to see if dst shape is correct

* test version

* test

* removed unnecessary params

* refactor

* fixed tests

* ggml : metal impl + cleanup + sycl dev warnings

* patched ggml_upscale cuda op to handle non-contiguous tensors, added test for non-contiguous behavior

* metal : fix upsacle op to support nb00 + style

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Co-authored-by: Georgi Gerganov <ggerganov@gmail.com>