sync : ggml (SD ops, tests, kernels) (#4444)

* sync : ggml (SD ops, tests, kernels)

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* cuda : restore im2col

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* metal : fix accuracy of dequantization kernels

ggml-ci

* cuda : restore correct im2col

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* metal : try to fix moe test by reducing expert size

ggml-ci

* cuda : fix bin bcast when src1 and dst have different types

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Co-authored-by: slaren <slarengh@gmail.com>