ggml : allocate graphs in a context (#2392)

* ggml : graph allocation in contexts

* allocate work buffer as a ggml_object in ggml_graph_compute_with_ctx

* llama.cpp : allocate graph in the context

* add GGML_PAD

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Co-authored-by: Georgi Gerganov <ggerganov@gmail.com>