Vulkan Improvements (#5835)

* Improve dequant shaders, add fast q4_0 dequant

* Optimize dmmv non-kquants for GCN

Remove unnecessary SPIR-V shader duplication

* Fix q4_0 dequant dispatch sizes

Fix backend free bug

* Optimize dequant shaders for q4_1, q5_0, q5_1 and q8_0

* Add unary and binary op shader templates

* Fix Vulkan check results

* Enable non-contiguous support for simple ops

* Add argsort

Basic q4_0 mmq shader and unit test

* Speed up q4_0 dequant code, enable mmq for q4_0

* Rework matmul pipeline selection

* Add soft_max alibi support

* Add q4_1, q5_0, q5_1 and q8_0 dequant mat mat mul shaders

* Add environment variable GGML_VK_FORCE_MAX_ALLOCATION_SIZE to limit max buffer size

Rename GGML_VULKAN_DISABLE_F16 to GGML_VK_DISABLE_F16 for consistency