ggml : full ALiBi support (#7192)

* ggml : full ALiBi support

* ggml : update ggml_soft_max_ext() CUDA, SYCL

* ggml : ggml_flash_attn_ext() support ALiBi (CPU)

* ggml : ggml_flash_attn_ext() support ALiBi (Metal)

* ggml : fix warning

* ggml : ggml_flash_attn_ext() support ALiBi (CUDA)

ggml-ci

* ggml : fix assert message

* vulkan : add dev notes

* ggml : require mask when using ALiBi

ggml-ci

* convert : fix convert for refact models