metal : refactor kernel args into structs (#10238)

* metal : add kernel arg structs (wip)

* metal : fattn args

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* metal : cont + avoid potential int overflow [no ci]

* metal : mul mat struct (wip)

* cont : mul mat vec

* cont : pass by reference

* cont : args is first argument

* cont : use char ptr

* cont : shmem style

* cont : thread counters style

* cont : mul mm id

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* cont : int safety + register optimizations

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* metal : GGML_OP_CONCAT

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* metal : GGML_OP_ADD, GGML_OP_SUB, GGML_OP_MUL, GGML_OP_DIV

* metal : GGML_OP_REPEAT

* metal : GGML_OP_CPY

* metal : GGML_OP_RMS_NORM

* metal : GGML_OP_NORM

* metal : add TODOs for rest of ops

* ggml : add ggml-metal-impl.h

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