EP/TESTS: Kineto sentinel check (#2031)

## What?
Check if CUPTI profiler is available before using it

## Why?
CUPTI not support all setups.

## How?
Run simple kernel with profiler and check if it succeeded. 


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## Summary by CodeRabbit

* **Bug Fixes**
  * Improved CUDA profiling compatibility in device performance tests.
* Profiling requests now verify CUDA Kineto support before execution and
provide a clear error when unavailable.
* Enhanced detection of CUDA activity across supported timing
configurations.
* Improved handling of unsupported profiling settings to prevent test
failures.
* Standardized profiling behavior across single-process and
multi-process test runs.
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