feat: Add fixtures only for new DBs, add flag to force fixture ingestion (#4315)

* feat: Add fixtures only for new dbs

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* startup demo ingestion

* refactor and optimize boot demo loading, add concurrency safety checks

* small comment change

* type hints

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* Update src/phoenix/server/app.py

Co-authored-by: Roger Yang <80478925+RogerHYang@users.noreply.github.com>

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* Update src/phoenix/server/app.py

Co-authored-by: Roger Yang <80478925+RogerHYang@users.noreply.github.com>

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Co-authored-by: Chris Park <cjpark@berkeley.edu>
Co-authored-by: Roger Yang <80478925+RogerHYang@users.noreply.github.com>