feat(updater): option to not restart after install (#3299)

* feat(updater): option to not restart after install

* More platform cfg

* Add the same function for `UpdaterBuilder`

* Fix missing `#[cfg(windows)]`

* Mark `current_exe_args` cfg(windows)

* Mark `on_before_exit` cfg(windows)

* Mark `installer_args` cfg(windows)

* Note about `installer_arg` apply to both

* Remove current args and restart together

* Only build needed bundle on windows as well

* Remove `/NS` since it breaks the msi updater

* Add launch updater debug log

* Add a folder to test updates

* Remove unused `#[allow(unused)]`

* Format

* messed up git stage

* Add change file

* Clean up

* Disable NSIS compression for API example

* Bump wry for v1 test to pull in https://github.com/tauri-apps/wry/pull/1703

* format

* Make typescript happy

* Close new update on destroy