Improved rebustness in sqlite3ExprListDup() when it contains a vector assignment

from an UPDATE where the initial term is omitted.  This can happen during a
UNION ALL query flattening while processing a virtual table update in which
the first term of the vector is repeated.
[forum:/forumpost/16ca0e9f32|Forum post 16ca0e9f32].

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