UCP/WIREUP: consider NUMA locality for cpuset during device scoring (#11459)

* UCP/WIREUP: consider NUMA locality during device selection

* TEST/GTEST/UCP: fixed proto mock test accordingly

* UCP/WIREUP: reuse existing NUMA distance function, use it as part of the scoring function instead of tie-breaking, calculate numa distance for CPU set

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Signed-off-by: Roie Danino <rdanino@nvidia.com>