Add a setting to show time to first window draw and frames per second in status bar (#16422)

I want to showcase Zed's performance via videos, and this seemed like a
good way to demonstrate it.


https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/f4a5fabc-efe7-4b48-9ba5-719882fdc856

Release Notes:

- On macOS, you can now set assign `performance.show_in_status_bar:
true` in your settings to show the time to the first window draw on
startup and then current FPS of the containing window's renderer.

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Co-authored-by: Max Brunsfeld <maxbrunsfeld@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Kirill Bulatov <kirill@zed.dev>
Co-authored-by: David Soria Parra <167242713+dsp-ant@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Danny Hua <danny.hua@hey.com>