Update windows doc to mention rust-lld linker error (#12859)

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## Description

When using rust-lld it's possible to get a `STATUS_ACCESS_VIOLATION`
error at compile time. I added a bit of information about it in the
build guide for windows to recommend using a different linker when
building `zed`.

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Co-authored-by: Marshall Bowers <elliott.codes@gmail.com>