Factor tool definitions out of `assistant` (#21189)

This PR factors the tool definitions out of the `assistant` crate so
that they can be shared between `assistant` and `assistant2`.

`ToolWorkingSet` now lives in `assistant_tool`. The tool definitions
themselves live in `assistant_tools`, with the exception of the
`ContextServerTool`, which has been moved to the `context_server` crate.

As part of this refactoring I needed to extract the
`ContextServerSettings` to a separate `context_server_settings` crate so
that the `extension_host`—which is referenced by the `remote_server`—can
name the `ContextServerSettings` type without pulling in some undesired
dependencies.

Release Notes:

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