Add xdg trash support (#12391)

- Added support for xdg trash when deleting files on linux
- moved ashpd depency to toplevel to use it in both fs and gpui

If I need to add test, or change anything, please let me know. I tested
locally by creating and deleting a file and confirming it showed up in
my trashcan, but that probably a less than ideal method of confirming
correct behavior

Also, I could remove the delete directory function for linux, and change
the one configured for macos to compile for both macos and linux (they
are the same, the version of the function they are calling is
different).

Release Notes:

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