Improve model selection in the assistant (#12472)

https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/assets/482957/3b017850-b7b6-457a-9b2f-324d5533442e


Release Notes:

- Improved the UX for selecting a model in the assistant panel. You can
now switch model using just the keyboard by pressing `alt-m`. Also, when
switching models via the UI, settings will now be updated automatically.