Introduce diff crate to unite BufferDiff and BufferChangeSet (#24392)

This is a refactoring PR that does three things:

- First, it introduces a new `diff` crate that holds the previous
contents of the `git::diff` module, plus the `BufferChangeSet` type
formerly of `project::buffer_store`. The new crate is necessary since
simply moving `BufferChangeSet` into `git::diff` results in a dependency
cycle due to the use of `language::Buffer` to represent the diff base in
`BufferChangeSet`.
- Second, it renames the two main types in the new diff crate:
`BufferDiff` becomes `BufferDiffSnapshot`, and `BufferChangeSet` becomes
`BufferDiff`. This reflects that the relationship between these two
types (immutable cheaply-cloneable "value" type + stateful "resource
type" with subscriptions) mirrors existing pairs like
`Buffer`/`BufferSnapshot`. References to "change sets" throughout the
codebase are updated to refer to "diffs" instead.
- Finally, it moves the base_text field of the new BufferDiff type to
BufferDiffSnapshot.

Release Notes:

- N/A

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Co-authored-by: maxbrunsfeld <max@zed.dev>