Update to embed-resource 3.0 (fixes build below windows \?\ path) (#21288)

Accd'g to
https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/pull/9009#issuecomment-1983599232
the manifest is required

Followup for
https://github.com/nabijaczleweli/rust-embed-resource/issues/71

Release Notes:
- N/A