Deadkeys 2 (#20612)

Re-land of #20515 with less brokenness

In particular it turns out that for control, the .characters() method
returns the control code. This mostly didn't make a difference, except
when the control code matched tab/enter/escape (for
ctrl-y,ctrl-[/ctrl-c) as we interpreted the key incorrectly.

Secondly, we were setting IME key too aggressively. This led to (in vim
mode) cmd-shift-{ being interpreted as [, so vim would wait for a second
[ before letting you change tab.

Release Notes:

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