extension: Add `ExtensionEvents` for listening to extension-related events (#26562)

This PR adds a new `ExtensionEvents` event bus that can be used to
listen for extension-related events throughout the app.

Today you need to have a handle to the `ExtensionStore` (which entails
depending on `extension_host`) in order to listen for extension events.

With this change subscribers only need to depend on `extension`, which
has a leaner dependency graph.

Release Notes:

- N/A