Extract Erlang support into an extension (#9974)

This PR extracts Erlang support into an extension and removes the
built-in Erlang support from Zed.

Tested using a Nix shell:

```
nix-shell -p erlang-ls
```

Release Notes:

- Removed built-in support for Erlang, in favor of making it available
as an extension. The Erlang extension will be suggested for download
when you open a `.erl` or `.hrl` file.