Add rs-notify implementation of `fs::watch` (#9040)

This PR simplifies the Zed file system abstraction and implements
`Fs::watch` for linux and windows.

TODO:
- [x] Figure out why this fails to initialize the file watchers when we
have to initialize the config directory paths, but succeeds on
subsequent runs.
- [x] Fix macOS dependencies on old fsevents::Event crate

Release Notes:

- N/A