Fix searchParams.set duplicate updates (#18336)

## Summary
- detect `SvelteURLSearchParams#set` changes by comparing duplicate
value lists instead of joined strings
- update reactive subscribers when duplicate params collapse to a single
value with the same concatenated text
- cover both `SvelteURLSearchParams` and `SvelteURL.searchParams`
synchronization

## Tests
- pnpm exec vitest run
packages/svelte/src/reactivity/url-search-params.test.ts -t
"URLSearchParams.set updates when duplicate values collapse to the same
joined string"
- pnpm exec vitest run
packages/svelte/src/reactivity/url-search-params.test.ts
packages/svelte/src/reactivity/url.test.ts

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Co-authored-by: Rich Harris <hello@rich-harris.dev>