fix(cli): improve Android BuildTask.kt Windows executable detection for nvm4w Fixes #13892 (#14146)

* fix(cli): improve Android BuildTask.kt Windows executable detection

- Fix Android build error on Windows when using nvm4w
- Add robust fallback logic for Windows executable detection
- Prevent 'node.exe.cmd' and 'Cannot find module' errors
- Graceful fallback to cargo when Node.js detection fails

Fixes #13892

* strip extension from project, try exe/cmd/bat

* revert args

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Co-authored-by: Lucas Nogueira <lucas@tauri.app>