fix(atlas): exclude node_modules from verification git diff --stat (#3215)

Atlas verification reminders instructed 'git diff --stat' which
included node_modules noise in the output. Added pathspec exclude
to both VERIFICATION_REMINDER and VERIFICATION_REMINDER_GEMINI
templates.

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