perf: use Set instead of Array for constant lookups in utils.js (#18250)

Several constant lookup tables in `utils.js` were arrays searched with
`Array.prototype.includes`, which is O(n). They're queried often — per
attribute during attribute setup and SSR, per event during event
delegation, and per identifier during compilation. Switching them to
`Set` makes each lookup O(1) without changing any public behaviour.